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Should I Stay Or Should I Go

Ramani Durvasula

Narcissistic personality disorder is a challenging condition that modern medicine has yet to effectively treat. Given the epidemic levels of narcissism in today’s world, it’s important to recognize the warning signs and understand the two options available if you find yourself in a relationship with a narcissist. Whether you choose to stay or leave, the first important step is to reconnect with your sense of control and self-value. From there, you can make the informed decision that is best for you. Did you know that we also provide company subscriptions for ? Click below or have your Learning & Development team contact us to learn how you and your team can benefit from for personal and professional growth.

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What's it about?

Dr. Ramani's Should I Stay Or Should I Go (2015) serves as a thorough handbook for individuals involved with a narcissistic partner. The book delves into the definition of narcissism, points out the warning signs to be mindful of, and provides two specific plans – one for choosing to remain in the relationship, and one for choosing to leave.

Book summary

Dr. Ramani Durvasula (“Don’t You Know Who I Am?”) is an American psychologist specializing in the effects of narcissistic and antagonistic personality types on relationships, health, and societies. Dr. Ramani is currently Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, and the founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting.

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7 Bites

The bus that is always late

The present situation; a reflection of the times.

The crimson flags

Narcissistic Relationship Trap

The frog in hot water

I have made the decision to remain.

Escaping the Narcissist's Grip

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