Falling Upward

Book summary

Richard Rohr is a Franciscan priest. He’s written over 20 books, and traveled the world as a speaker, teaching on themes such as spirituality, scripture, nature and Earth care. He also writes for Radical Grace, Sojourners, and Tikkun magazines.

The two halves of life are not bound by age and often feel disconnected. Some, particularly those who endure hardships, enter the second phase early, while others may never reach it. Joseph Campbell’s concept of the "monomyth of the hero" offers a lens to understand this transition. The hero begins in a blissful, familiar world, eventually leaving it for an adventure that challenges their comfort and expands their perspective. Initially, they believe their first task is the ultimate goal, but they later uncover a deeper purpose and return home transformed, seeing it anew and sharing their wisdom. This mirrors the shift from the first half of life, focused on building identity and external achievements, to the second, which embraces a broader, interconnected reality. Myths, religious narratives, and personal experiences all highlight the necessity of "falling"—a descent into challenges that fosters growth. Figures like Odysseus and teachings from the Gospels illustrate this journey, where letting go of the "false self" leads to discovering the true self. The second half of life is marked by a paradoxical blend of peace and sadness, a release from judgment, and a quiet authority rooted in presence rather than control. It involves embracing nondualistic thinking, finding value in shared connections, and influencing others through authenticity. Ultimately, this stage is not about aging or decline but about "falling upward" into a richer, more meaningful existence, where suffering and transformation are essential parts of the process.

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