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Wednesday Martin is an author and cultural critic with a doctorate in comparative literature and cultural studies from Yale University. She’s written about issues of gender, sexuality, and parenting for publications like the New York Times, Harper’s Bazaar, and the Atlantic. She’s also the author of Stepmonster and Primates of Park Avenue – a New York Times best seller.
Up to this point, the discussion has explored how women’s sexual behavior, marked by fluidity and boldness, challenges the notion of monogamy. Studies by Dr. Lisa Diamond and Dr. Meredith Chivers reveal that women’s sexual orientation does not strictly define their attractions, with heterosexual women often experiencing arousal from diverse scenarios. This flexibility is reflected in global cultural practices, such as the Skirt Club for exploring same-sex fantasies, Lesotho’s sexual female friendships, and Suriname’s “Mati” relationships. These findings suggest that women may not naturally gravitate toward exclusivity, a concept further supported by observations of non-monogamous behavior in primates like rhesus macaques and bonobos. The biological design of the female body, including the clitoris’s sensitivity and the cervix’s sperm-filtering capabilities, also implies an inclination toward multiple partners. Despite societal perceptions of women as naturally monogamous, research shows that their sexual desire often declines in long-term relationships, and they cheat at rates comparable to men, driven by physical rather than emotional needs. Historical and societal structures, from ancient Greece’s public punishments to modern divorce statistics, have enforced monogamy and suppressed women’s sexual expression, particularly for African American women facing compounded challenges. The roots of monogamy can be traced to the agricultural revolution, where property ownership and inheritance concerns reshaped gender roles and restricted women’s autonomy, a legacy that continues to influence societal norms today.
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