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The Gift of Failure

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The Gift of Failure

Jessica Lahey

Parents should allow their children to fail in order to provide them with the tools for a self-sufficient and driven life. It is important to let children make mistakes and not shield them from failure, as this can hinder their growth and self-esteem. Instead of taking over tasks for them, parents should offer support and guidance, allowing children to learn from trial and error. Feedback on our content is welcome, so feel free to share your thoughts by emailing us at [email protected]. For further reading, check out "How to Raise an Adult" by Julie Lythcott-Haims, which explores the negative effects of helicopter parenting and offers insights on raising independent adults. If you're interested in sharing with your team, consider our company subscriptions for personal and professional development.

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In her book titled The Gift of Failure (2015), Lahey presents convincing arguments for parents to release their control over their kids and allow them to experience failure. According to Lahey, this approach will provide children with a valuable chance to understand their own values and abilities, as well as enhance their self-assurance, independence, and accountability.

Résumé du livre

Jessica Lahey is a writer, teacher, and addiction recovery coach who has been published in the Washington Post, the Atlantic, and the New York Times. She is the author of the best-selling book The Gift of Failure, and was a 2019 Pushcart Prize nominee.

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